The Beyoncé to His Jay-Z
After listening to Valen and Wenda’s story, I can’t help but remember one of Beyoncé’s legendary songs that describe her relationship with her husband, Jay-Z. The lyric goes,
“Ran by the men, but the women keep the tempo
It's very seldom, that you're blessed to find your equal
Still played my part and let you take the lead role”
Wenda and Beyoncé are the true definition of the modern day women who share a few things in common. Both of them are strong, ambitious and independent women who are unapologetic when it comes to speaking their minds fluently to make sure they seal the deal in all aspects of their lives. However they are both not too proud in admitting that they still want a man in their lives to be their equal to build an empire and take over the world.
When it comes to making the biggest decision of her life, Wenda knew it was best to write a list of qualities she would want and need in a man. These are a few things on her wish list: confidence, reliability, thoughtfulness, and most importantly willingness to give Wenda to be have the freedom to be her authentic self.
In this digital era and instant lifestyle, you might a few swipe or clicks away from finding your soul mate. The courage to put yourself out there puts you closer to happily ever after. And that’s where Valen and Wenda met: in the World Wide Web. Solely relying on the quality of honest conversation on the Web allows two individuals to purely fall in love for the right reason. Instead of being distracted by the beauty or the fashion that make up a person, you fall in love with the virtues of that person. Therefore an unbiased chemistry is born.
Those genuine heart felt conversations shook Wenda to the core of her being. Not only did Valen cross all the attributes on Wenda’s list, he surpassed it. Valen possess this quiet confidence and is not threatened by Wenda’s independent woman quality. Valen understands Wenda’s complexity and sees it as beautiful. Yes, she is independent, but she is still a woman who deserves love and adoration from her partner. He respects her as his equal, embraces her for all her strengths and weaknesses, she is the Beyoncé to his Jay-Z. Valen and Wenda: a power couple who hustles, grinds and grows together as one.